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Scots Borderer
Foreword by Drew Robertson (fifth born) IT is always a shock when someone close to you dies – and one of the hardest things to bear is when a loving parent departs. Whatever the circumstances, sudden or after a long protracted illness, the impact is immense. My father, known best to me as Robbie (but to others Willie), died in March 2003 suddenly. Although this hit hard, like a thunderbolt, on reflection it was probably easier to bear. Peacefully he just sat down for an afternoon nap. Undoubtedly that's probably the best way to meet our maker. Over the year since his death, I have gone over the events countless times – the days, months, years leading up to it. Inevitably, there is pain. But my thoughts always return to reflect on my own relationship with Robbie and casting my mind back over the memories. He led a colourful life, so full of variety and achievement. The stories are endless...and I yearn to keep them alive. What is a life if it cannot be celebrated? In recent years, I grew extremely close to Robbie – as a son, journalist colleague and friend. Yet my loss is no greater than any person's who has had to suffer when a much-loved parent dies. Unfortunately you can never really hit on meaningful advice, or appreciation, unless you have undergone parental bereavement. But one things is for sure...the cherished memories should not be forgotten. Robbie's contribution to my existence certainly remains undiminished. For me, putting up this memorial site will rekindle memories and provide a legacy of thought and reflection. Robbie was very much into the power of the internet and it is rather fitting that this memorial should be launched on a site that he was developing. ScotsBorderer.co.uk was to be 'the world's window on the Scottish Borders'. It was in this region that Robbie grew up, in the village of Stow, and when he returned to Cavers, near Hawick, it was as if his life had gone full circle – returning prophetically to the land he loved so dearly. So it is appropriate that this memorial should be under this banner...because Robbie was so truly a Scots Borderer. I hope that this reflection – enhanced over time by the memories of those who touched his life, both family and friends – will help others bear the anguish of losing a parent.
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